Thursday, September 30, 2010
The big day Oct.2
Well it's that time,the time that most girls dream of ,and most guys dread. I didn't think this day would ever come for me. I was always quick to avoid it like the plague. Now almost thirty my goals have changed so much. I no longer see marriage as a death sentence. I now see it as so much more, it is a chance for me to relax. There is such a weight lifted knowing someone else is their to help you now. Knowing that when times get hard you will not be sitting there alone in the dark. There is just something about the way you feel when someone reaches down to grab your hand, only to tell you it will be okay. That is only the half of it their are also the good times. Everyone should know this feeling its when you sit around with your friends and talk about what you all did, but with a wife it never ends. You get to share every story and remember together how you felt when you did even the simple stuff, like the walks in the park or trips with the kids. Either way you get to share your emotions without the fear of rejection. Plus they keep us in check, truth be told some of us need that extra help.
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Awww! Congrats!!
ReplyDeleteWell Congrats to start off. Everyone needs someone and there is a someone for everyone. I have a friend who is finally married as of last year. He and his wife have a four year old daughter and have been together for over fifteen years. He would always tell us that someday he would marry her. Eventually that day came. We were all surprised and excited for them. There was a bunch of friends and family at the wedding reception. I think most of the friends were there just to make sure he was actually going through with it and wanting to hear him say I do. But when that one day was over he could not believe how easy it was and he was glad to get the whole thing over with.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!
ReplyDeleteI was married to the love of my life for 28 years. It wasn't always perfect, but I loved every minute of it. A few words of wisdom, you can do what you want with them. Never take her for granted. Always remember why you married her. Do the dishes once in a while, without being told. Take out the garbage. Remember her birthday and the special day you met. And if you can't remember, write it down somewhere and save yourself a lot of grief! Best Wishes!!!